Saturday, November 11, 2023
Route 66
Thursday, March 2, 2023
Journey with books! - End of 2023
A mere resolution that was not planned to last long is thriving thanks to some simple steps, determination, and guidance. What started as a thought is now a plan in motion. So here is the target - 30 books this year and a stretch of 50 books ;)
With 9 books by 3rd March, I am no track I must say :) Instead of mein aur meir tanhayi, it is mein aur meri books!!!
1. Sophia - probably the most uninterested book I ever read. And picking this as my first one was wrong. But thinking back, it was the best decision. It was gruelling and dragging for 3 weeks but it made my determination stronger to read for 20-30 mins a day.
Then came the Jane o'Hare series, what a savior it was. I loved Jane and Nick as characters and the hating attracting chemistry between them. And the cons they pulled off were fun to read but not believable, but who cares.
2. The Heist by Janet Evanovich; Lee Goldberg
3. The Chase by Janet Evanovich; Lee Goldberg
4. The Shell Game by Janet Evanovich; Lee Goldberg
5. The Job by Janet Evanovich; Lee Goldberg
6. Art of War - managed to squeeze this in on a boring morning in office
James Patterson's Mike Bennett series started slow but the 2nd book was great given the personal story was attached. Few pages made me emotional.
7. Run for your life - James Patterson
8. Step on a Crack - James Patterson
9. The Guide - R K Narayan - good book, I have not watched the full movie so felt the book was a decent read
10. When the wind blows - James Patterson, decent read about scientific experiment kids, was definitely fat, finished it in 3 days.
11. The grand finale Janet Evanovich, a too good to be true romantic book. But the chemistry was good, decent read and was done in 1 day. Not bad speed.
12. Deception Point - After a long break and difficult month, finally finished this book. It was a ok read, nothing like Dan Brown's previous books.
13. SAIL James Patterson- decent read, did have some good bits about dysfunctional family and the grit to fight. A bit too much about very cunning lawyer who got it free, too much movie style.
14. The curious incident of the dog in the night time - very interesting book. The story starts simple with an autistic kid trying to find out who killed the neighbor's dog but it ends up talking about all the complications in his family. One of the best things about the book is how the author has taken the kids point of view and shown how autistic kids think. I was really moved by their hardship and also inspired. I also wish i could think as logically as them and see the world in black and white. Definitely a good read.
15. Sapiens (audiobook) was awesome, just incredible way of putting human history and the coincidence of homo sapiens surviving. A must-read book for all. Loved the last line about humans having super power 'imagine a unhappy God who didn't know what he wants' the future is so scary when you see it from this angle!
16. You are my best friend - total crap, not worth even 1st page read. I went by the title and it was nowhere close to decent. Author's expectations and ways of being with best friend is just so mediocre :D
17. Don't Believe Everything You Think was ok ok, mainly talking about how overthinking dosnt help.
19. I know you got soul - Clarkson, was a brilliant book about some of the best man-made machines. He can actually put life into a machine and see them as living beings. And his sense of humor makes it even more fun the read.
20. Palace of Illusions - really good view from Draupadi point of view
11. It Ends with us - good book, liked the way it was written. Specially the abusive parts and how it impacts people was hard-hitting. I am so glad I did not see any of it growing up which made me a better person.
22. It starts with us - it was ok, again the troubles of separation and how to draw a line made sense. It helped in understand how overthinking makes things really hard.
23. The Last Queen - incredible book, really good story about the last Punjab queen and how she went from rags to being a queen and how she fought her battles. Worth reading.
24. The hidden hindu - Part 1 - i found it very bad, not worth mentioning.
Monday, February 20, 2023
Small Things!
Sometimes small things can make such big differences that you might be shocked. It can trigger something that can help you do things which you thought was never possible.
I have always sucked at writing on my plans. Resolutions are something I have made many times but couldn't follow it thru will. I have always found a reason to bail out of them.
This year was a bit different, I somehow decided to have few tangible ones and wanted to stick to them as long as I can.
One of them was reading, nothing more than a few pages a day. The first book I picked was really bad. It was so uninteresting that I dint even remember most of the book. But i stuck to reading even when I felt I can't. Somehow managed to finish it after 3 weeks.
Then came a recommendation of a book after review of my interests. The trust was so much that I picked up 4 books from the series. And yeah, they were great.
I was so engrossed that I knocked them 4 really quick. Then another small book in between and then started another one from a series. Looking back I am on my 8th book since Jan 1st 😀
Now that I'm in a flow, I have a target. 30 books at a minimum. Given that I am on my 8th book which will be done by end of Feb, I think I am doing alright for that goal :)
So, what was the small thing that helped? First, it was the recommendation, it was just perfect, I went full throttle on these.
And then there was this small thing a beautiful kid gave to me which felt so special that I wanted to use it. And somewhere it has made a difference in my reading.
A beautiful handmade bookmark that said 'Talk to yourself like someone you Love' :) It is so simple but so powerful, I wish we all could shower ourselves with that kinda love. And you know what, even if I manage 10% of that, I will treat myself with so much love and respect that I will be enough for myself :D
So cheers to finding such small things in life that can keep you going! And yes 'Talk to yourself like someone you Love'!!!
Tuesday, December 20, 2022
Company!
This is something I have craved all the time. I have always managed to surround myself with people. Didn't matter who it was, if I get along or not (i normally get along with most people), where I am, etc. I always needed people to be around. Personal trips were always with family or friends, I have visited some completely random functions, events, etc with people who were not even close. I thot traveling in a group is fun and you have someone to talk to.
Monday, December 5, 2022
Misconception!
Imagine the investors from a private equity group visiting you. The boss is responsible for a large portfolio worth $30bn in the services industry😈. From Vietnam and moved to Swiss as a kid, studied mechanicals, worked in mechanicals, moved to equity as a complete novice, and worked his way to a portfolio head. The general notion is that a cocky, cutthroat, money-driven, showing-off, asshole who doesn't care. Not that bad but I definitely thought they will be very judging and arm's length away. 😈 I was not sure what to expect from the investing board member's visit to India.
Meshtru!
Meshtru, teacher, TBH I haven't had great regard for most of my teachers in school or college. For me, teaching is more than just going through subjects and helping me get better at it. It is about grooming a kid to become a better person. Like making them confident, listening, guiding them about what is right/wrong, and being there during tough times, especially for below-average kids. What happened in my student days was the complete opposite. The below-average kids were looked down on, their confidence was shattered by harsh words and almost encouraged to do stupid things. Even though I was decent at studying (but super lazy to read), I did not find any teacher who could make me curious about the subject.
Monday, October 3, 2022
Art & Crafts!
I have never been artistic in my life and appreciate what it takes to be artistic. It was more of a chore than an interest in school which is reflected in all my so-called artwork. It was bad, mundane, and painfully mediocre.
- It starts with Ravana lifting Kailasa to show his strength and get Lord Shiva's blessing. The 10-headed Ravana had to be custom-made and shipped. He managed to give a 60 yr old movie scene to the artist to replicate NTR's face. Each face had different features which would the attention to detail.
- The gods pray to Vishnu to save them and Dasharatha Maharaj does a homa to get the blessed with children. He is given a payasam which he shares with his 3 queens and is blessed with 4 boys. The boys are trained by Rishi Valmiki in a gurukul. The elegance of the queens and the poise of the boys in gurukul were super.
- Janaka Maharaj finds Sita (I did not know Sita means Plough/negilu) in a field that has a cow with a plow for detailing.
- Sita swayamvar was so clearly shown. There was a small cart to push the Shiva Dhanush to depict that it was very heavy and could only be handled by Sita and the Groom had to be equally strong🙂
- The marriage happens and they are soon exiled to vanavasa. The pain ok Dasharatha's face is clear and the humble stance of Rama shows his respect
- The bullock cart shows all the stuff that Rama, Sita, and Laxmana leave behind.
- The scene where Bharatha takes Rama's paduka to rule was beautiful. It showed respect for each other on the face
- The next scene of the golden deer with Sita almost ordering to hunt was clear
- Next was the scene of Vali fighting Sugreeva and Rama slyly killing him from hiding (Vali had a boon to get half the strength of the opponent, so had to be killed from hiding). Rama's posture showed the slyness and discomfort of this act clearly.
- Next was Hanuman looking to present Rama's ring to Sita in Lanka before the Lanka Dahan. The expression of the demons who guarded Sita was incredible, for me the best piece of the lot.
- The last scene was Ram offering prayers to shiva in Rameshwaram and building Ram Sethu to cross the ocean and reach Lanka. Ending with Rama's fight with Ravana and winning.
- This then moved to the crowning of Rama as the King with his family and friends around him
- All this story shows the significance of Ayodhya in Hinduism and then shows a real-life replica of the temple being built. He has taken a miniature of the temple and got a scaled version done by looking at multiple videos. The attention to detail in a number of pillars, levels, and structures was crazy.
- There were a few other setups like the Thirupathi Bhramostava or Vadirajaru with his book talking depicting the key places in India.
- He had also added European cities in the mix to tell his travel stories with a big toy train.
